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The blame game
The blame game
Hey
So, I was in my favourite coffee shop yesterday
I love to go there on sundays to read and let my imagination soar a little about what is possible
and sometimes I will over hear a conversation, as you do sometimes
and today there was a lady next to me and I swear to god for 25 minutes, she just sat there and blamed everybody else
she blamed the doctor because he would not give her any medication for her thyroid because he said there was nothing wrong
she blamed weight watchers for the fact she has not lost any weight
she then blamed the gym for not letting her train at a time that was suitable for her despite the fact she signed up to train at a set time
then she went on to blame her husband for her not getting any sleep
I will be honest here part of me wanted to go over and say ‘stop blaming everybody else for your mess’
but I actually more than that felt sorry for her
because the thing is
she blamed so many different people and so many different circumstances that it has become impossible for her to take responsibility
not just for where she is at right now
but also for what she has to get done in order to change her situation
see the moment you start blaming other people and things you pretty much relinquish responsibility which is very very dangerous if you ever genuinely want to change your situation
now that does not mean that it is never somebody else’s fault, that does not mean other people are not to blame, it does not mean unfortunate things don’t happen to us
but as soon as you get obsessed with blaming, because maybe you don’t yet want to realize that the only way to get over obstacles is to take responsibility for yourself 100% NO MATTER what has happened
and when you get stuck playing the blame game you are avoiding taking that responsibility
and automatically paralysing yourself from doing anything about it
because you think it is somebody elses fault
As I said I am not saying other people and circumstances don’t ever make our positions a lot harder
however playing the blame game and not dealing with it does not benefit you at all
consider this for a moment
Where in your life are you blaming somebody or something else for your problems? so much so that you are relinquishing responsibility
and preventing yourself from dealing with it?
see, It is not about who’s fault it is
but when you get stuck in that mindset of blaming
you are giving away your power to change your current reality
you are keeping yourself unhappy by blaming
all that you ever are in control of is your response, your reaction
So I want to test your reaction to this email right now
I want you to email me back NOW
and honestly tell me where you think you need to take more responsibility for your health and fitness………..
If you are really ready to stop playing the blame game and take full responsibility, then click this link,totally risk free and i can help you with that
http://leighwrafter.com/
Leigh ‘ pointing the finger’ Wrafter
PS – If you just want to spend the rest of your life trying to comfort yourself by always having someone else to blame? then click the unsubscribe link below and you can say it was my fault next time
About the Author Leigh Wrafter
I specialize in helping stressed out, self conscious girls who are fed up of trying everything a getting nowhere finally get the body they desire. I'm so passionate about what i do and i believe one of my biggest powers is getting you to believe in something you didn't think was possible and had given up on. I love being able to help girls like you change not only how they look but how they feel about themselves too and it is why it is a fundamental part of all my programs. It's time to say goodbye to looking in the mirror and just seeing your flaws and hello to finally feeling comfortable in your own skin.