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21 things you didn’t know about me (1/21) The REAL uncensored reasons why I do what I do
21 things you did not know about me (1/21)
The REAL uncensored reasons why I do what I do
21 things you did not know about me and why it makes me incredible at changing lives
1/21 : why it’s important to me I reveal the real uncensored reasons why I do what I do
So this morning I want to talk about why this is important to me, and I want to reveal the real uncensored reasons behind why I do what I do, so you know a little bit more about who I am and how I think. see my girlfriend is in for a pretty important operation today.
she’s just been brought down for surgery so I’m getting a coffee and going to train before going back up to be there for when she is done.
And as I said it got me thinking about why doing what I do is important to me and I want to share it with you because I want you to really think about why getting in better shape is important to you, the REAL reasons.
Now I know the obvious answer is to lose weight but I am talking about the really deep deep reasons so I am sharing my reasons for doing what I do as an example so you can see what I mean but also to be the leader I want to be and lead by example. pulling up these deeper reasons makes doing this so much more powerful and having something really powerful to drive you on is incomparable to anything else.
Sure you want to lose weight and tone up but why is that important to you, then when you have that answer you need to go again and ask why is that important?? I presume you can see where I’m going with this
This is the stuff that lights a fire under your ass, the stuff that keeps you going when it gets tough, it’s the stuff that makes you unstoppable
For the ladies that already work with me, I have already asked you this question when you applied but remember those reasons and go a bit deeper, remind yourself Incase you forgot, and don’t ever let them out of your mind
So why is becoming an incredible personal trainers that changes lives so important to me
Well I’ll start with the newest reason and the reason I got thinking about this again and that’s my girlfriend andie, she’s been amazing since I met her and is so supportive it’s incredible so I want to do amazing things with this so I can do amazing things with and for her, and spoil her and treat her and just be a man she can be really proud of
I’m also the oldest of 6 children and for a lot of years when I was going through some really bad times and felt useless and worthless and had no confidence I felt like I was letting them down and I want to be a leader, to be an example to them of what you can do when you just believe in yourself, to be a big brother they can be proud of and look up to and be inspired by
Yesterday was Mother’s Day and that reminded me that I want to be successful and able to make sure I can look after my mum, so she never has to worry about anything, to be a great son and treat my mum
I’ve always had a mixed relationship with my dad and although he always did his best and provided lots he wasn’t the best with his emotions and it was always hard to talk about certain things and I felt like I never did anything he liked or was proud of. I have always worked for my dad and it just seemed like my ideas were never good enough and I felt like I was a disappointment as a son. I want to hear him say he is proud of me and what I have done
I want to do brilliant things with this because I realised that I have a super power I have empathy and I have a gift of being able to get people to believe in themselves again, and when that dawned on me I understood I could do something incredibly worthwhile with this. I get what it feels like not to feel ok, I know how it feels to feel down and uncomfortable, I know what it feels like to not feel good enough and just see my flaws when I look in the mirror, I know what it feels like to feel hopeless and lost and alone, I know what it feels like to feel like nobody cares and just not be happy with the person I am, but fortunately I figured out how to change all of that for myself and it makes me pretty special at helping all the girls that I’m lucky enough to help to just get back to a place where they feel good about themselves again and can walk with pride and be able to like who they see looking back in the mirror cause we all just want to be happy and apparently I’m good at making people happy again and I strive every single day to get better and better at that
Someone asked me at the weekend what my favourite part of this ‘job’ is and 100% it is seeing the change in my girls, seeing the confidence grow, seeing the self esteem come back, seeing the smiles return to their faces, seeing them start to believe in the possibility of things they were afraid to believe in before (like I said that’s my superpower) I love seeing them do things they couldn’t and the bond and friendships that get formed and how they trust me and have faith in me and that inspires me more to do my absolute best to never ever let them down.
I want to do well and be able to build a big successful business that I can be proud of and to be able to buy the things I want and live the life I want, although this part is material it is still important to me and I want these things and I would never hide that, and I want to be brave enough to try my hardest to go for it rather than pretend I’m content without because I’m too afraid to say or to go for it, but I want to get these things by providing an incredible service and doing my best every day to deliver on my promises and over deliver every single time!!!! To be able to have some luxury in my life by changing the lives of others.
This is important to me because I want to be proud of myself, I spent too many years hating myself, feeling worthless and useless and afraid, very afraid and now I’ve worked on getting that belief back, I want to keep pushing myself every day to keep getting better, to keep challenging myself and taking risks and getting uncomfortable and feeling afraid but going and fucking doing it anyway, to keep backing myself and trusting myself that I am special and I am different and I am good enough to go out and show myself just how great I really can be. I want to look in the mirror and be proud and to honestly be able to say I did my best and I pushed myself. I want to see just exactly what I can really do and how far I can go, if I just trust myself to go and do it. I want to go and play my own game and fuck the rules, I want to do what I said I was going to do.
So there you go, now you know something about me that you didn’t before, now you know a little bit more about the man your dealing with here and why being an incredible trainer and changing people’s lives is important to me.
So why is doing this important to you? What is it you really want? Like really want? And why do you REALLY want it…..??
If you have already applied to be part of the ladies who lunge slimdown formula 2? then I hop this has revealed a bit about who I am and I really hope it has you excited about getting to work with me
If you have not??
(why not??)
you need to get your skates on as time is running out and I’ll tell you honestly
there is 4 applicants I really think are great fits
so that means basically that there is only 2 places left
and the applications keep coming in
If you are on the fence about this
the time is now to do something
here is the link
http://leighwrafter.com/gp-
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About the Author Leigh Wrafter
I specialize in helping stressed out, self conscious girls who are fed up of trying everything a getting nowhere finally get the body they desire. I'm so passionate about what i do and i believe one of my biggest powers is getting you to believe in something you didn't think was possible and had given up on. I love being able to help girls like you change not only how they look but how they feel about themselves too and it is why it is a fundamental part of all my programs. It's time to say goodbye to looking in the mirror and just seeing your flaws and hello to finally feeling comfortable in your own skin.